According to the Bible God gave Solomon one wish, anything he wanted. When Solomon asked for wisdom, God said to Solomon, "I'm not only going to make you wise, but you will be the wisest man who ever was or ever will be."
Solomon went into the world with his newfound wisdom and married over three-hundred women. Is that smart? Or is smart different than wise?
Every time someone in the Bible offended God by breaking His laws, they would show penance by giving up something like eating or drinking. Solomon, as the story goes, once gave us sex for thirty days as his penance. Over two-hundred-seventy of the wives never noticed any difference.
If Solomon was the wisest man who ever was or ever will be, what does it say how intelligent any of us men can get? If a woman complains that you as a man are acting dumb, have her talk to God about it. After all, He set the limit on how smart we can get. Maybe the woman can convince God to change our learning curve.